What's on your mind?

My friend, Matt, has had a long career in public relations and communications, and introduced me to the term, "committing candor" when a politician or public-facing official actually says what's on their mind in a deviation from the message, talking points, or informationless response they were trained to deliver.

At home, Ada Yonath was always questioning.

"My mother said I was always asking, 'Why is that red?' and 'Why do we have winter?' and 'Why is this liquid more viscous?"

"Despite her parents’ lack of resources or formal education, they supported their daughter’s evident curiosity and, with the help of an encouraging kindergarten teacher, sent her to a prestigious grammar school."

Judy wants your point of view.

It's not that she doesn't have strong opinions of her own and a well-internalized point of view. In fact, that strong persona gives her the confidence to put her point of view out for challenge. Her sister-in-law and I were recently admiring how when she has decisions to make, she crowdsources. She puts her hypothesis out to her friends and associates for peer review.

"Jeter sucks" their shirts proclaimed.

On a summer afternoon about a dozen years ago, I was standing outside Fenway Park in Boston waiting for a friend. We were using the occasion of a Red Sox game to hang out and catch up on each others' lives. As noted many times, I have a lot of identity attached to Boston -- love that dirty water -- and consequently an attachment to the Sox.

Common sense says the world is flat

In 240 BCE, Eratosthenes used math and astronomy to demonstrate the earth is round. Mathematicians and astronomers recognized this truth pretty much ever after, but common knowledge held the earth is flat. Duh. No one had walked west and came back around from the east. Notwithstanding a sailing expedition started by Portuguese navigator Fernão de Magalhães -- and completed by Spanish Basque navigator Juan Sebastián Elcano after de Magalhães's death -- did exactly that, as recently as 2020 a flat earthers' cruise to the ice wall at the edge of earth was planned also notwithstanding the ship's navigation would use GPS which only works because the earth is round.

Robert and I were in DC a few years ago for some client meetings and the Washington Capitals hockey team was in contention for the Stanley Cup. Robert played collegiate hockey -- goalie and selective mover -- and DC not being a hockey town like Boston or Montreal we were able to get tickets the day of the game.

Observe. Orient. Decide. Act.

At the moment for decisive action, whatever's going on right now, which is your context -- meets your experience -- which is everything you've learned, remembered, trained for, patterns you recognize, analogies you can apply. This rapid integration of your context with your experience occurs every time your awareness becomes an understanding that generates an action. This is what happens when you wake from sleep; when you're driving and a green light turns to a yellow light, when you hear someone call your name, when something comes moving quickly toward you: a car, a volleyball.

If you want to annoy me, say, "if all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail" Sayings like these were called bromides after a primitive sedative. It was widely observed at the time that people under the influence of potassium bromide lost their spark. They were perceived as boring.

"Where did I put my cup? Oh yeah." "What's the name of that variety of mountain laurel? Oh yeah."

I talk to myself all day. A lot of it is when I'm retrieving something from memory in one of those "at the tip of my tongue" moments. So often, all I need to do is announce out loud to myself what I'm trying to remember, and it appears.

"That's a pie crust promise," said Mary Poppins, "Easily made; easily broken."

Go ahead and make a New Year's Resolution. Ceremonial dates are important. They give us pause. We look behind to the last one; look ahead to the next one. We draw energy from the pause, leverage that energy to imagine what could be different next year, and make a commitment to make that difference.